The problem is YOU, not the world

So the world is on fire, went crazy, MAD. The same intensity is blazing in you. The reason why you blame the world for it is because you are not emotionally intelligent enough to see that the problem is YOU not being able to DEAL with the intensity that IS you.

I don't try to be mean here. I just want you to become aware of where you're leaking your power. 

When the 'outside world' doesn't trigger the fuck out of you, you can pretend that you are okay. Stay 'asleep.' Just doing the same damn thing with the same damn outcome, and your brain is convincing enough for you to believe that you are fine.

Now this is not an option anymore. The outside world, for MANY of us, shows us that there are a lot of things not fine. Fires, political standards, fighting in traffic, pandemics, severe mental health issues, suicide numbers, climate change, wars, personal trauma, angry faces on the streets, even the lack of communication skills and the list goes on and on.

For the first time in history, we are connected to the whole world! And for the first time in history, the reality of people is personally algorithm-ed. Every belief finds proof on what we call the internet. And we are all pointing the finger outwards. And the shaming, fear, anxiety, anger, and depression are growing like a weed in spring.

The problem is YOU.

IT'S YOU!

When you truly realize this, a ton of weight will fall off your shoulders. Because when you allow yourself to be the main problem in your life, you realize that you are also the resolution.

EVERYTHING IS CHANGING.

THIS IS THE NEW NORMAL.

Transformation. The unknown. Is the path of the unforeseeable future!

The beautiful thing about this is: when you really start to look within, for solving 'the problem,' you can teach your human system to be comfortable within this (unknown) space that now feels so fucking scary. You can teach your human system to be comfortable within the depth of uncomfortability. You can take your human experience out of the cage that you unconsciously created. This is the secret to living life as a free human being.

The moment that you realize by experience, that the outer world cannot shake your foundation anymore. Because you ARE your foundation. You build your foundation. You teach your nervous system that you are the one in charge of your power to respond. You are the one in charge of which internal experience you have AT ALL TIMES. You are the one with control over how you FEEL, whatever the external world is doing.

This is my field of expertise. This is where I guide you in. To teach you how you can take your power back that you gave unwillingly away. To shift your perspective. To not only become a more happier person, but to be a person that can DEAL with the pain, horrors, anger and grieve that is a normal human experience. You create a space where those feelings are welcome to flow THROUGH you, instead of holding on to them and make it into a story, a brain loop, an identity, a reality. 

It is known that even in the biggest warzones, there lived people with the complete surrendering of external control that made their life experience in the moment not only doable but pleasurable. I am not claiming I know such a thing as being in an external warzone. But I believe immediately that this can be so. I know one or two things about suffering myself.

It was just not that my external world collapsed by force of the hands of others, but by severe trauma injury. My (made-up) safety, my reality, my sanity, my identities, my attachments, my world and my working brain and body are what I lost in the impact. Before, I was one of the 'sleeping people.' It's not a term that I use with blame nor judgment. I just, in the literal sense, didn’t KNOW this awareness was a possibility. This control of my inner field.

Nobody (at least I think) consciously chooses to be in a space where they feel robbed of being who they want to be. If you could choose, would you be depressed? Or would you be fulfilled?

I know from personal experience that you can indeed drown in pain and STILL find a way to be at peace with it.

The problem was me. Not in a blaming way. 

It's just that before, I didn't realize I am the maker of my own (inner) world. And now I cannot shut up about it.

I feel that my experience made me ready for these times that are now upon us, for the uncertainty of the future is now visible to all. The power of the Roman Empire is crumbling once more. And the norm that was our great-great-grandparents, grandparents, and parents is falling apart. Life is forever changing, and we are one of the first generations that see it happening before our own eyes, while so many are pretending that everything is ‘just okay,' because it's so fucking hard to look your pain in the eye, don't even start about ’befriending’ it. 

Of course, the fall of the system is scary as fuck. But it is also what many, and I mean many of us humans, were hoping for. This system that is now crumbling is a repressing system for many, including Mother Earth. We also know that we cannot build on this old system. New systems must come in place. So now it’s breaking down. This can take decades or even hundreds of years to come fully to completion, but we all experience that it is happening right this minute. Brick by brick.

If we can all, in this era of transformation, find our power, our peace, and our joy within, then we are officially part of the resolution. For the outer world (for the individual) is nothing more than the experience of the inner world.

I can even argue in this essay that BECAUSE of the growing individual awareness, the end of society as we know it is happening... But then, who am I to say what came first: the egg or the chicken?

But before we start searching for solutions outside of ourselves, let us first be the solution within ourselves. As long as you feel the power of your life is not in your hands, you have no business worrying about the life outside of yourself. Think about it. To replace a system that runs on fear with new ideas that come from individuals running on fear would just be, in the end, the same fucking system.

The ‘obsessed with SELF' one month journey starts 21 of march 👀🚀👄🚬

WHAT TO EXPECT

For four weeks, you will receive one email every Monday, filled with:

✅ Practices to implement immediately

✅ Deep explanations to shift your perspective

✅ Guidance to create a new routine

✅ Space creating talks, shifting your state of being before every week

A routine for those obsessed with the inner field. For those determined to reclaim their power. For those brave enough to walk the road less traveled—not just for themselves, but to embody a new way of living that inspires those around them.

This journey is not for the faint-hearted.

I’ve walked this radical self-awareness path for over a decade. The fear I feel daily? My brain would call it life-threatening.

But let’s be honest…

Is burying your head in the sand really fear-free? Is blaming the world really pain-free?

Or have we just numbed ourselves so much that we never feel fully alive? Never truly free—until death pulls us out of our bodies again?

WELCOME DEEPER INTO YOU.

Our journey begins March 21.

We Spring into Spring.

Are you ready? Subscribe to my email list. Mark your calendar. Make space. And step in.

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This is your invitation to step into your greatest desire, and release your from the fakery of outer reflections and the pain it cost you - it is time to spend EVERYTHING you have on yourself. You are allowed to ONLY care about you and become a part of the solution.

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