Nobody has boundary issues but me

Subject: Nobody has boundaries issues but me.

Hey My Brave human!

By now, you're probably noticing:

Boundaries aren't actually about what other people do 😁🤯👀

They're about what you choose to allow.. Shit right. But yes! And that? Is really good news. Because it means your power doesn’t depend on them—it depends on you. I want a happy dance!

Today we shift from noticing the leaks to reclaiming your space.

 Not in big dramatic ways (unless that’s what you prefer 🤤), but in the small, everyday moments.

 The ones where you check in and ask:

• Do I really want to do this?

• Do I have the space for this?

• Do I do this for approval?? 👀👀👀

Your practice today:

Set one small boundary today that reflects your truth.

 It could be:

• Turning off notifications

• Not picking up the phone when your mother calls

• Saying “I’ll get back to you” instead of answering right away

• Taking a breathing break even when your mind says push through

Notice how it feels in your body. Where do you feel it? 

Celebrate it—even if it’s awkward, even if it’s messy. Especially then. Fuck yes! (You remember right that we make this space within the human ready to carry fun, rest, pleasure and celebration, right?! Oke. DO IT! 

🗣️ This is what it looks like to rebuild your foundation.

 Brick by brick. Choice by choice.

 You don’t need to be loud—you just need to be clear.

Tomorrow we look at the promises you’ve made to yourself… and what it really means to start keeping them.

Holding the line with you,

 Lincy